Tuesday, January 30, 2018

Magha Puja


Magha Puja, also called Sangha Day or Fourfold Assembly Day, is a major uposatha or holy day observed by most Threravada Buddhists on the first full moon day of the third lunar month, usually some time in February or March.

The Pali word sangha (in Sanskrit, samgha) means "community" or "assembly," and in this case it refers to the community of Buddhists. In Asia the word usually is used to refer to monastic communities, although it can refer to all Buddhists, lay or monastic.
Magha Puja is called “Sangha Day” because it is a day to show appreciation to the monastic sangha.
"Fourfold assembly" refers to all followers of the Buddha -- monks, nuns, and men and women who are lay disciples.
On this day laypeople gather at temples, usually in the morning, bringing with them offerings of food and other items for the monks or nuns. Monastics chant the Ovada-Patimokkha Gatha, which is a summary of the Buddha's teachings. In the evening, often there will be solemn candlelight processions. Monastics and laypeople walk around a shrine or Buddha image or through a temple three times, once for each of the Three Jewels – The Buddha, the Dharma, and the Sangha.
The day is called Makha Bucha in Thailand, Meak Bochea in Khmer and the full moon of Tabodwe or Tabaung in Burma (Myanmar).

Background of Magha Puja

Magha Puja commemorates a time when 1,250 enlightened monks, disciples of the historical Buddha, spontaneously came together to pay respect to the Buddha.
This was significant because --
  1. 1.All the monks were arhats.
  2. 2.All the monks had been ordained by the Buddha.
  3. 3.The monks came together as if by chance, without any planning or prior        appointment
  4. 4.It was the full moon day of Magha (the third lunar month).
When the monks were assembled, the Buddha delivered a sermon called the Ovada Patimokkha in which he asked the monks to do good, to abstain from bad action, and to purify the mind.

Notable Maha Puja Observations

One of the most elaborate Magha Puja observances is held at the Shwedagon Pagoda in Yangon, Burma. The observance begins with offerings to the 28 Buddhas, including Gautama Buddha, who Theravada Buddhists believe lived in prior ages. This is followed by a nonstop recital of the Pathana, Buddhist teachings on the twenty-four causes of worldly phenomena as taught in the Pali Abhidhamma. This recital takes ten days.
In 1851, King Rama IV of Thailand ordered that a Magha Puja ceremony be held every year forever at Wat Phra Kaew, The Temple of the Emerald Buddha, in Bangkok. To this day a special closed service is held every year in the main chapel for the Thai royal family, and tourists and the public are encouraged to go elsewhere. Fortunately, there are several other beautiful temples in Bangkok in which one may observe Magha Puja. These include Wat Pho, temple of the giant reclining Buddha, and the splendid Wat Benchamabophit, the Marble Temple.

អត្ថន័យ​នៃ​ការ​ប្រារព្ធ​ពិធី​បុណ្យ​មាឃបូជា


អោយ​តែ​ដល់​ថ្ងៃ ១៥​កើត​ពេញ​បូណ៌មី ខែ​មាឃ ម្ដងៗ ពុទ្ធសាសនិក​តែងតែ​នាំ​គ្នា​ប្រារព្ធ​ពិធី​ដ៏​ធំ​មួយ​គឺ​បុណ្យ «មាឃ​បូជា»។ ពិធី​នេះ​គឺ​ជា​ឱកាស​អោយ​ពុទ្ធសាសនិក​រំឭក​ដល់​ព្រឹត្តិការណ៍​សំខាន់​មួយ​ចំនួន​ដែល​បាន​កើត​ឡើង​នៅ​ក្នុង​សម័យ​ពុទ្ធកាល។

ពិធី​បុណ្យ​មាឃបូជា ជា​ទូទៅ​ត្រូវ​ពុទ្ធ​បរិស័ទ ឬ​អ្នក​កាន់​ព្រះពុទ្ធសាសនា​ប្រារព្ធ​ធ្វើ​នៅ​តាម​វត្ត​អារាម ឬ​មួយ​ធ្វើ​នៅ​ឯ​ព្រះ​សក្យមុនីចេតិយ ជា​ទី​តម្កល់​ព្រះ​បរម​សារីរិកធាតុ​ព្រះ​សម្មាសម្ពុទ្ធ។
អ្នក​សិក្សា​ស្រាវជ្រាវ​ផ្នែក​ព្រះពុទ្ធ​សាសនា​បញ្ជាក់​ថា ថ្ងៃ​មាឃ​បូជា គឺ​ជា​ព្រឹត្តិការណ៍​សំខាន់​មួយ​ក្នុង​ព្រះពុទ្ធ​សាសនា ឬ​កាល​ដ៏​អស្ចារ្យ​មួយ​ដើម្បី​រំឭក​ដល់​ព្រះ​សម្មាសម្ពុទ្ធ​បរម​គ្រូ កាល​ពី​ទ្រង់​នៅ​មាន​ព្រះ​ជន្មាយុ​នៅ​ឡើយ។
ព្រះភិក្ខុ​ខេមាន្ទោ ឈន់ ឈឿន គ្រូ​សូត្រ​ស្ដាំ​នៅ​វត្ត​ដំណាក់ ខេត្ត​សៀមរាប។ ព្រះអង្គ​មាន​ថេរដីកា​ថា ថ្ងៃ​មាឃបូជា គឺ​រំឭក​ទៅ​ដល់​ថ្ងៃ​ដែល​ព្រះ​សម្មាសម្ពុទ្ធ​ទ្រង់​ដាក់​អាយុ​សង្ខារ៖ «ជា​ព្រឹត្តិការណ៍​ដែល​ព្រះអង្គ​ដាក់​ព្រះជន្មាយុ​​សង្ខារ បាន​ន័យ​ថា កំណត់​ពេល​បរិនិព្វាន​ នៅ​ពេល​ដែល​មារ​​បាន​ទៅ​អារាធនា​ព្រះអង្គ​ក៏​បាន​ទទួល​យល់​ព្រម​ជាមួយ​នឹង​មារ អ៊ីចឹង​នៅ ៣​ខែ​​ទៀត​តថាគត​នឹង​បរិនិព្វាន»
ព្រះតេជព្រះគុណ ឈន់ ឈឿន មាន​ថេរដីកា​បន្ត​ថា ថ្ងៃ​មាឃបូជា​ក៏​ជា​ថ្ងៃ​រំលឹក​ទៅ​ដល់​ពេល​ដែល​ព្រះពុទ្ធ​អង្គ​សម្ដែង​នូវ​ឱវាទ​បាតិមោក្ខ​ប្រទាន​ដល់​ព្រះ​ភិក្ខុ​សង្ឃ​ជា​អរហន្ត​ទាំង ១.២៥០​អង្គ ដែល​បាន​មក​ចូល​រួម​ចតុរង្គសន្និបាត៖ «កាល​នោះ​ព្រះអង្គ​ទ្រង់​សម្ដែង​ឱវាទ​បាតិមោក្ខ ព្រោះ​តែ​កាល​ណា​គ្រាន់​តែ​ព្រះ​អង្គ​នឹង​ឃើញ​ថា ចង់​សម្ដែង​បាតិមោក្ខ គឺ​ចង់​ជួប​នឹង​ពួក​ភិក្ខុ ពេល​នោះ​ព្រះ​អរហន្ត​​​​​ទាំង ១២៥០​អង្គ សុទ្ធ​តែ​ជា​ព្រះ​អរហន្ត​លោក​និមន្ត​មក​ដោយ​ពុំ​មាន​អ្នក​និមន្ត​ទេ​ បាន​ន័យ​ថា បាន​មក​ដល់​ភ្លាម»
ការ​ប្រជុំ​ចតុរង្គសន្និបាត ជា​កាល​ដ៏​អស្ចារ្យ ពីព្រោះ​ការ​ប្រជុំ​នោះ គឺ​ប្រកប​ដោយ​អង្គ​៤ ដែល​រួម​មាន អង្គ​ទី​១ គឺ​ពេល​នោះ​ជា​ថ្ងៃ​ឧបោសថសីល​មាន​ព្រះចន្ទ​ពេញ​វង់ ថ្ងៃ ១៥​កើត​ជា​ថ្ងៃ​ពេញ​បូណ៌មី ខែ​មាឃ។ អង្គ​ទី​២ ព្រះ​ភិក្ខុ​សង្ឃ​សាវ័ក​ដែល​បាន​មក​ចូល​រួម​ចតុរង្គសន្និបាត​ទាំង ១.២៥០​អង្គ​នោះ គឺ​បាន​និមន្ត​មក​ពី​ទិស​ទាំង​៤ ដោយ​មិន​បាន​កំណត់​ពេល​គ្នា ឬ​ក៏​ផ្ដល់​ដំណឹង​ណាត់​ទុក​ជា​មួយ​គ្នា​អ្វី​មុន​ទាល់​តែ​សោះ ក៏​ស្រាប់​តែ​ដល់​ថ្ងៃ​នោះ បាន​និមន្ត​មក​ព្រមៗ​គ្នា​តែ​ម្ដង។ អង្គ​ទី​៣ ព្រះ​ភិក្ខុ​សង្ឃ​ទាំង​អម្បាលម៉ាន​នោះ សុទ្ធ​សឹង​តែ​ជា​ព្រះអរហន្ត ឬ​ជា​បុគ្គល​ដែល​បាន​សម្រេច​អរហត្ត ប្រាស​ចាក​រាគៈ (លោភៈ) ទោសៈ មោហៈ ជា​អ្នក​សម្រេច​នូវ​អភិញ្ញា​៦ ឬ​មាន​ចំណេះ​ដឹង​យ៉ាង​ខ្ពស់​ក្នុង​លោកុត្តរ​ធម៌​នៃ​ព្រះពុទ្ធ​សាសនា។ ចំណែក​អង្គ​ទី​៤ គឺ​ព្រះ​ភិក្ខុ​សង្ឃ ១.២៥០​អង្គ​នោះ សុទ្ធ​តែ​ជា​ឯហិ​ភិក្ខុ ដូច​គ្នា​ទាំង​អស់។ ដែល​ហៅ​ថា ឯហិ​ភិក្ខុ គឺ​ជា​ភិក្ខុ​ដែល​បំបួស​ឡើង​ដោយ​ព្រះ​សម្មាសម្ពុទ្ធ​ផ្ទាល់ ហើយ​ពេល​បំបួស​នោះ គឺ​មាន​ស្បង់​ចីវរ​បាន​ប្រាកដ​ឡើង​ដោយ​ឯក​ឯង ហើយ​ការ​កាត់​កោរ​សក់ កោរ​ពុក​មាត់ ពុក​ចង្កា ក៏​កើត​ឡើង​ដោយ​ឯក​ឯង​ដែរ ដោយ​អំណាច​នៃ​បុណ្យ​បារមី​របស់​ព្រះ​ភិក្ខុ​សង្ឃ​ទាំង​នោះ ដែល​បាន​ធ្វើ​សន្សំ​ទុក​មក​ជា​ច្រើន​ជាតិ។
ក្នុង​ថ្ងៃ​ប្រារព្ធ​ពិធី​បុណ្យ​មាឃបូជា​នេះ ពុទ្ធសាសនិក​នៅ​កម្ពុជា ភាគ​ច្រើន​បាន​ធ្វើ​ចង្ហាន់​ដើម្បី​ប្រគេន​ព្រះសង្ឃ​នៅ​តាម​វត្តអារាម​នានា។ ស្រប​គ្នា​នេះ ពុទ្ធបរិស័ទ​នៅ​តាម​វត្តអារាម​មួយ​ចំនួន​ក៏​បាន​ដង្ហែ​ក្បួន​ដាក់​បង្ហាញ​គំនូរ​ដែល​និយាយ​ពី​ពុទ្ធ​ប្រវត្តិ​ដែរ។
អ្នក​សិក្សា​ផ្នែក​ព្រះពុទ្ធ​សាសនា​បាន​បញ្ជាក់​ប្រាប់​ដែរ​ថា ការ​ប្រារព្ធ​ពិធី​បុណ្យ​មាឃ​បូជា ដែល​ពុទ្ធ​បរិស័ទ​បច្ចុប្បន្ន​ធ្វើ គឺ​ដើម្បី​រំឭក​ដល់​ព្រះមហាករុណាទិគុណ​ព្រះ​សម្មាសម្ពុទ្ធ ដែល​ទ្រង់​ប្រជុំ​ចតុរង្គសន្និបាត ឬ​សម្ដែង​ឱវាទ​បាតិមោក្ខ​ក្តី និង​កាល​ដែល​ទ្រង់​ដាក់​អាយុ​សង្ខារ​ក្តី​ណា​នោះ គឺ​ការ​គោរព​បូជា​មិន​មែន​សំដៅ​ ​យក​តែ​ចង្ហាន់​ទៅ​ប្រគេន​ព្រះសង្ឃ​នៅ​វត្ត​នោះ​ទេ ការ​បូជា​ដ៏​សំខាន់​ក្នុង​ថ្ងៃ​មាឃ​បូជា គឺ​ពុទ្ធ​បរិស័ទ​ទាំងអស់ គប្បី​គោរព​តាម​ពុទ្ធ​ឱវាទ ដូច​ជា​នាំ​គ្នា​រក្សា​សីល រួម​មាន​សីល​៥ សីល​៨ ជា​ដើម​ឡើង​ទៅ។
ក្រៅ​ពី​នេះ​អ្នក​សិក្សា​ផ្នែក​ព្រះពុទ្ធ​សាសនា​ក៏​បាន​ណែនាំ​ថា​ពុទ្ធសាសនិក​គប្បី​នាំ​គ្នា​បដិបត្តិ​ធម៌​វិបស្សនា​កម្មដ្ឋាន និង​ចម្រើន​មេត្តា​ភាវនា​ផង​ដែរ ដើម្បី​ឧទ្ទិស​កុសល​ផល​បុណ្យ​ទាំង​អម្បាលម៉ាន​នេះ ជូន​ដល់​បុព្វការី​ជន មាតា​បិតា ជីដូន​ជីតា និង​សព្វ​សត្វ​ទាំងអស់ ឲ្យ​បាន​ដល់​នូវ​សេចក្តី​សុខ ពិសេស​ឲ្យ​បាន​ដល់​មនុស្ស​ទូទៅ​ក្នុង​សង្គម​ជាតិ​ខ្មែរ ដែល​សព្វថ្ងៃ​កំពុង​ជួប​បញ្ហា​លំបាក​ផ្នែក​នយោបាយ​មាន​អំពើ​ហិង្សា សូម​ឲ្យ​បាន​ស្បើយ​ពី​បញ្ហា​នេះ និង​បាន​ចុះ​សម្រុង​គ្នា​ឡើង​វិញ ដើម្បី​រួម​គ្នា​កសាង​កម្ពុជា ឲ្យ​មាន​សុខ​សន្តិភាព និង​ចម្រើន​រុង​រឿង​ត​ទៅ​មុខ៕

Saturday, January 27, 2018

3 Big Reasons Why Your Boyfriend Broke Up With You

What did your beau reveal to you when he severed things? Discover the REAL reasons he finished your relationship, and why it's most likely not what you think! 


Everybody separates - it's a piece of dating. Be that as it may, not every person knows precisely why. 

On the off chance that your sweetheart said a final farewell to you, regardless you need him back? You'll have to take in the REAL reasons he let you go. Since what a person says - and what he genuinely implies - amid a separation are typically two altogether different things. 

The awful news is that your ex deceived you. Fortunately regardless of how he parted ways with you, there's dependably a way - a progression of words and activities - that will lead you once more into your beau's arms. 

Be that as it may, before any of that, you have to know precisely why he finished things. 

When attempting to turn around an undesirable separation, your greatest risk is that you thought everything your beau said in regards to why he's releasing you. In truth, you had no reason not to. He most likely sounded genuine, and you were presumably excessively disturbed, making it impossible to acknowledge he was practically snowing you. 

Need reality? Folks will VERY RARELY disclose to you the genuine reasons they're finishing a relationship. Furthermore, this is on account of they're not hoping to give you a genuine clarification... they're more intrigued by getting out as fast and neatly as could be expected under the circumstances. 

So what do they do? They lie. They disclose to you the most verifiable things. "The fault here is entirely mine". Or then again something like "I require some time alone" or "I'm not prepared to be not kidding at this moment". The greater part of this is fake, obviously. He's truly saying that he's not prepared to be not kidding with YOU. 

Folks will lie regarding why they said a final farewell to you with a specific end goal to move rapidly away. They don't need contentions. They don't need asking or arguing or you saying that you'll "settle" whatever it is that is broken. Doing those things will push your ex away much further and quicker than if you didn't state anything, so ensure you dont' commit that error. 

The REAL Reasons Why Your Boyfriend Broke Up With You 

What you'll discover next is a rundown of three primary reasons a person will typically say a final farewell to you. A couple of them will be difficult to acknowledge, yet you should be straightforward with yourself and locate the genuine reasons your sentiment finished on the off chance that you need any expectation of compromise. 

You Tried to Control Him 

Control. We as a whole look for it, we as a whole need it. Be that as it may, when we get it? We frequently mishandle that power. What's more, for this situation, it's totally conceivable you were far excessively controlling when it came, making it impossible to how you collaborated with your ex. 

Consider how your sweetheart's life was initially, when you initially met him. Did he have loads of companions? Leisure activities? Did he hang out with loved ones significantly more? 

What's more, shouldn't something be said about at this point? On the off chance that your ex moved things so he invested practically all his energy with you, he most likely felt constrained. What's more, on the off chance that you detested him at whatever point he went out with companions or got things done without you? This weighed on him intensely, after some time. 

Excessively controlling connections dependably end seriously. You can't control someone and anticipate that they're going will love you for it. In like manner, attempting to control your ex negatively affected you also, in light of the fact that the more control you had? The more you needed. It's a winding of destitution that never is by all accounts satisfied. 

Individuals who feel controlled or controlled will become progressively far off. Did your ex feel that way? In the long run they leave, and for the most part all of a sudden. The first sentiments of adoration and warmth were disintegrated away by consistent weight from what viably turns out to be to a greater extent a 'parent' than a mate. 

You Were too Insecure About Dating Him 

This is one of those practices you don't understand you're showing. However, every time you do, you're devastating your sweetheart's assessment of you only somewhat more. 

Ask yourself this: did you generally dog your ex to state that he cherished you? Did you inquire as to whether you were excellent? Shouldn't something be said about his exes? Did you contrast yourself with them, or knock them, or endeavor to inspire him to state you were the best darling he at any point had? 

Those inquiries are a major indication of frailty. You ought to embrace the here and now, not the past, and you ought to be content with the way that your sweetheart cherishes you for YOU... also, not startled that he doesn't love you enough. 

The most exceedingly bad thing about being uncertain is that it can snowball rapidly. The more you inside persuade yourself that you're sufficiently bad for him? The more HE trusts it as well. Your beau stars pondering the end result for that solid, dynamic, autonomous young lady he once cherished to such an extent. All of a sudden she's been supplanted by somebody who needs steady consolation and approval, to the point where it really ends up noticeably irritating. 

No relationship will survive on the off chance that one individual is unpleasantly unreliable about themselves, and about the status of the sentiment. You get what you give; and if whatever you're doing is taking without end? Your person will rapidly lose enthusiasm for continually attempting to conciliate you. 

You Were Always Jealous, All of the Time 

Envy is capable. But at the same time it's, terrible. 

When you're unreliable for quite a while, what happens is that frailty shows itself as outrage. What's more, how would you show that outrage? By continually acting like an envious sweetheart. 

This is difficult to see, particularly when you turn your look internal to take a gander at yourself. No one gets a kick out of the chance to believe they're that desirous individual. Be that as it may, ask your companions, or even the individuals who knew you as a couple? What's more, you may find an alternate solution. 

An envious sweetheart is never going to last. On the off chance that you were continually investigating your beau, swiping his telephone to peruse his instant messages, tailing him in the dead of night or keeping an eye on him through companions or whatever? You were certainly "that young lady". 

What occurs here is that this conduct gradually moves toward becoming 'ordinary' after some time. You'll prevent your beau from looking or notwithstanding conversing with different young ladies, and at the same time, you'll believe it's 100% alright. After some time, things get increasingly extreme. Until one day your sweetheart looks and acknowledges "Stunning, this is insane!" And that is the point at which he runs. 

Once more, your ex wouldn't state "I'm parting ways with you since you're excessively desirous." In an exertion, making it impossible to get him back, you'll offer to settle that. For hell's sake, you'll offer to settle anything. InsteadFree Articles, he'll say "I'm severing things in light of the fact that XYZ..." where XYZ is some counterfeit reason for him to stop without contention.